22 year age difference dating
While I don’t think it’s important to adhere to an arbitrary formula when considering age in a potential relationship (interestingly, when I met Kevin our age difference was exactly this ratio), I think it can be a good rule of thumb to help you consider if your relationship is appropriate.
(A 37 year old dating a 25 year old is different from a 30 year old dating an 18 year old.) I often tell people that Kevin and I met at the perfect time.
She says, “I asked myself, ‘Will I be willing to submit even if his leadership is not as mature as I would like?
'” Leah also worried she might not always be able to meet Travis’ physical needs and wondered if he might one day regret marrying an “old woman” who couldn’t keep up with all of his activities.
“I had surpassed him in some areas — I had been in the workforce for 12 years when we met and held leadership positions in church.” I had similar concerns when I met Kevin.
From our first conversation, I could tell he was very mature for his age. Once I learned his actual age, I was concerned that he might not be ready to settle down and have a family, when I definitely was.
If you’re considering getting serious with someone significantly older or younger than yourself, these are important things to discuss.
I don’t know why this one year made such a difference to me.
Before I began dating Kevin, a woman I worked with in children’s ministry frequently asked me about him, seeing potential from the start. ” “Ah,” she said lightly, waving her hand, “My husband’s four years older, but he acts younger.
Age is just a number.” As Kevin and I broached some tough topics in conversation (at the advice of wise counsel), something occurred to me.
Even some 30-something guys I knew didn’t seem ready.
But as I observed how he interacted with people at church and did his job, my fears were alleviated.